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		<title>Mapping the Roles in Bullying and Untangling the Threads of Peer Pressure</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever thought about how your child might react if they witness a classmate being bullied — whether they stay silent, join in, or take a stand? Or can you imagine your child being in a situation where they are the target of laughter or mockery? How do you think they would handle such an experience? In today&#8217;s parenting journey, dealing with bullying is more than just understanding the traditional bully-victim scenario. It involves looking into various roles in bullying, like bystanders and upstanders. Also, acknowledging the sway of peer pressure is crucial. Remember, bullying isn&#8217;t a new issue;</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Have you ever thought about how your child might react if they witness a classmate being bullied — whether they stay silent, join in, or take a stand? Or can you imagine your child being in a situation where they are the target of laughter or mockery? How do you think they would handle such an experience?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In today&#8217;s parenting journey, dealing with bullying is more than just understanding the traditional bully-victim scenario. It involves looking into various roles in bullying, like bystanders and upstanders. Also, acknowledging the sway of peer pressure is crucial. Remember, bullying isn&#8217;t a new issue; nearly 1 in 5 high school students faces it on school grounds.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Now, think about how these bullying situations might affect your child. How can you spot and handle these roles? Let&#8217;s dive into parenting amid different aspects of bullying, sharing tips and strategies to create a safe space for children.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Different roles in bullying</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Learning the diverse </span><a href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/9781118482650.ch5" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="font-weight: 400;">roles in bullying</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> is essential as it provides valuable insights into the dynamics at play, helping you comprehend the multifaceted nature of bullying. This understanding equips you to address and navigate these scenarios effectively. The usual roles observed in bullying scenarios include the following.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bully</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullies are those who initiate and engage in bullying behaviors. Behind bullies, there are also other roles involved in the situation:</span></p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Assistants of the bully</strong>: Peers who do not initiate bullying but join in when someone else starts the aggression.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Reinforcers of the bully</strong>: Children who encourage bullying by providing a supportive audience, laughing, inciting the bully, and more (also termed &#8220;bully’s followers&#8221;).</span></li>
</ul>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Characteristics and motivations of bullies can vary, but some common traits and tendencies have been identified through research. Here are some general </span><a href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/9781118482650.ch9" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="font-weight: 400;">characteristics and motivations</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> associated with bullies.</span></p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Dominance</strong>: Bullies seek to demonstrate control over peers or desired resources, using harassment as a means of exerting power.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Revenge</strong>: Bullying can be a response driven by a desire to get back at someone or pressure them to perform better.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Belonging</strong>: The need for acceptance and belonging drives bullying behavior to fit into a group or maintain social connections.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Romance</strong>: Youths may use bullying to express romantic interest or eliminate perceived competitors in romantic pursuits.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Identity</strong>: Bullying can be a tool to enhance one&#8217;s self-esteem or protect a positive self-image, particularly when peers attempt to damage it.</span></li>
</ul>
<p><strong>Read more: <a href="https://insights.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/types-of-bullying/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Types of Bullying: Different Ways Your Child Could Be Bullied</a></strong></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Victim</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Victims are children targeted by bullying actions. Exposure to bullying is connected with </span><a href="https://capmh.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s13034-021-00425-y" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="font-weight: 400;">mental health problems</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. Children who have experienced bullying are more likely to have negative thoughts about themselves and go through emotional distress, especially when dealing with feelings of sadness. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Looking at the bigger picture, those who were bullied as children face a higher chance of dealing with </span><a href="https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2011-13026-002" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="font-weight: 400;">depression even up to 36 years later</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. These discoveries highlight how bullying can have a lasting and significant impact on mental health.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bystander</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bystander bullying refers to when children observe a situation without actively participating or taking a side. There are two types of bystanders:</span></p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Passive bystanders</strong>: Children who stay away from bullying situations, choosing not to take sides with anyone.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Active bystanders</strong>: Children who actively intervene to defend the victim and stop bullying. They are also known as bullying upstanders.</span></li>
</ul>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bystanders are a crucial part of bullying. This is why it&#8217;s essential to focus on bystander intervention — stepping in to help or stop bullying when it happens. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you find your children acting as bystanders, guide them to take these five steps in bullying situations:</span></p>
<ol>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Notice the event</strong>: Observe the situation and pay attention, especially focusing on vivid events with specific victims to grab attention.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Interpret the event as an emergency</strong>: Recognize the situation as an emergency, overcoming the tendency to assume it&#8217;s not an emergency if others seem unconcerned.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Accept responsibility for the intervention</strong>: Take personal responsibility to intervene, fostering empathy toward bullied peers for active involvement.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Know how to intervene or provide help</strong>: Equip with the knowledge and skills to intervene effectively, overcoming self-doubt and fears.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Implement intervention decisions</strong>: Take direct actions to stop the bullying or choose indirect methods such as reporting the incident or seeking help from a teacher or adult.</span></li>
</ol>
<p><strong>Read more: <a href="https://insights.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/stella-omalley-bullying-the-perpetrators-victims-and-how-to-prevent-raising-parents-12/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Stella O’Malley: Bullying – The Perpetrators, Victims, and How to Prevent | Raising Parents #12</a></strong></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">The influence of peer pressure</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Understanding the influence of peer pressure is crucial for navigating the complexities of bullying. Learning about peer pressure and its connection to bullying is essential for you as a parent because it lets you recognize, address, and guide your child through situations influenced by peer pressure.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Definition of peer pressure</span></h3>
<p><a href="https://link.springer.com/referenceworkentry/10.1007/978-3-319-16999-6_3619-1" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Peer pressure</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> is the impact of standards and expectations set by peers on an individual&#8217;s behavior, thoughts, and emotions. This influence emerges early in life, particularly as children engage with the social world beyond their immediate family or home.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">According to the </span><a href="https://www.aacap.org/AACAP/Families_and_Youth/Facts_for_Families/FFF-Guide/Peer-Pressure-104.aspx" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="font-weight: 400;">American Association for Community Psychiatry (AACP)</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, peer pressure can be positive, providing support and aiding skill development for personal growth and learning.  Conversely, peers may also exert a negative influence, encouraging risky behaviors like skipping classes, stealing, cheating, and substance use, potentially leading children down a harmful path.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Children might give in to negative peer pressure because they&#8217;re afraid of being left out or teased. Wanting to fit in and be accepted can push them to do things they wouldn&#8217;t normally do.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Peer pressure and bullying</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As outlined above, children may follow the crowd and engage in behaviors like bullying if it appears acceptable or cool to the group.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In youth athletics, </span><a href="https://books.google.com/books?hl=en&amp;lr=lang_en&amp;id=eDnSDwAAQBAJ&amp;oi=fnd&amp;pg=PT7&amp;ots=aZJT3CYgbL&amp;sig=ndykgUnqBe_zkIvTOb_J21IXFYk" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Nery et al. (2020)</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> found instances where peer pressure led athletes to engage in behaviors outside the usual norms. Athletes, especially those deviating from the typical &#8220;ideal&#8221; image, may become targets for not being assertive or skilled enough. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This peer pressure can influence athletes to emulate the behavior of more popular peers, even if it involves bullying, in an attempt to fit in and be part of the perceived cool crowd.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In contrast to young athletes, regular children often take on the </span><a href="https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10802-010-9399-9" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="font-weight: 400;">role of passive bystanders</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. Concerned about potential repercussions and harm to friendships, these children choose not to intervene, maintaining peace within their group and avoiding involvement in stopping the bullying.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Recognizing and addressing peer pressure</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The AACP recommends that parents provide their children with the following guidance to empower them to resist negative influences and foster a positive peer environment:</span></p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Be selective in choosing friends</strong>. Guide your child to choose appropriate peer groups, steering clear of those who may influence unsafe or inappropriate behaviors.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Encourage assertiveness</strong>. Encourage them to develop assertiveness, empowering your child to say &#8220;no&#8221; confidently and practice handling uncomfortable situations.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Foster positive connections</strong>. Create healthy connections with friends who are committed to resisting peer pressure and building a supportive network.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Seek trusted guidance</strong>. In case of difficulties with peer pressure, advise your child to confide in a trusted adult — whether it&#8217;s a parent, teacher, or school counselor — for guidance and support.</span></li>
</ul>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Understanding the definition of peer pressure and its potential impacts equips you to guide your children effectively, navigating the complex dynamics of peer pressure and bullying for a safer environment in their development.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Preventive measures</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Understanding </span><a href="https://www.unicef.org/reports/school-based-violence-prevention" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><span style="font-weight: 400;">preventive measures</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> is crucial in creating a safe and supportive environment to address bullying effectively. By exploring school-based programs, community involvement, and the role of parents and teachers, you gain insights into collaborative strategies that contribute to preventing bullying. </span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Establish a coordinating team in the school</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The role of school-based programs in bullying prevention is crucial. It involves establishing a coordinating team representing teachers, administrative staff, students, parents, and community members. Here is what the program can achieve:</span></p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Regular collaboration</strong>: Work as a team to plan and execute bullying prevention activities, assess current initiatives, and select suitable programs.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Direct engagement with students</strong>: Take a hands-on approach by actively involving students. Integrate skill development programs into the curriculum, focusing on recognizing bullying, conflict resolution, emotional management, accessing support, and assisting peers facing bullying.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Comprehensive skill integration</strong>: Develop a curriculum that thoroughly includes essential skills, addresses the root causes of bullying, and promotes a secure school environment.</span></li>
</ul>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Implement community-led activities </span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In preventing bullying, involving the community using various approaches that create positive engagement is crucial. Here&#8217;s how the community contributes to preventing bullying:</span></p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Extra support for schools</strong>: Act as additional resources to connect students, assisting in the educational setting.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Bringing different skills</strong>: Groups in the community can contribute different skills to help with anti-bullying efforts. For instance, working with the police can bring programs to prevent gang violence to schools.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Fun after-school activities</strong>: Start fun after-school clubs to keep children engaged in positive activities and lower the chances of them getting involved in bullying.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Displaying positive messages</strong>: Create places to show positive messages, like having exhibitions of students&#8217; work in local places. This could include student plays or events to teach people about preventing bullying.</span></li>
</ul>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Empowering the role of parents and teachers</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying prevention programs in schools may not be effective if children experience bullying or violence at home. Behaviors learned at home can carry over to school, underscoring the importance of parents and teachers working together to create a safe and supportive environment and prevent bullying.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Here are the approaches teachers can take to help parents address and prevent violence:</span></p>
<ul>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Active involvement</strong>: Maintain active involvement and keep parents informed about violence prevention activities and school policies regarding violent behavior.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Information dissemination</strong>: Share messages on how parents can actively support their child&#8217;s learning.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Invitation to coordination</strong>: Invite parents to participate in violence prevention coordinating committees.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Awareness-raising initiatives</strong>: Raise awareness among parents about recognizing and appropriately inquiring about violence. Equip parents with the knowledge to identify potential signs of bullying.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Parenting program collaboration</strong>: Collaborate on parenting programs to enhance essential parenting skills and encourage non-violent approaches for managing challenging behavior.</span></li>
</ul>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Collaborating with teachers allows you to actively engage in various aspects of bullying prevention, from staying informed and involved to receiving support, fostering awareness, and participating in collaborative programs to enhance your parenting skills.</span></p>
<p><strong>Read more: <a href="https://insights.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/bullying-prevention/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Stop the Cycle: Understanding Bullying in Kids and How to Prevent It</a> </strong></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">In conclusion</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Understanding the various roles of bullying and the influence of peer pressure empowers you, as a parent, to support your child effectively. By staying informed and implementing specific strategies, you create a safe space for open conversations, essential for navigating social challenges.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Moreover, preventing bullying is a collective effort that involves parents, teachers, schools, and communities. Your active participation and awareness are crucial in fostering an environment that encourages positive interactions and the well-being of children.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Take a stand against bullying by promoting roles like upstanders and encouraging your children to interrupt, speak, and stop the bullying. Create a safer and more supportive community for your children.</span></p>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Leni Novita]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Mar 2023 06:49:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Bullying is a serious issue that affects numerous individuals, particularly children. Both the bully and the victim could suffer from the negative impacts of bullying. Hence, it is essential to comprehend the variables that lead to the development of bullying behavior and to implement preventative and corrective measures.  Around 33% of children worldwide are bullied at some point during childhood or adolescence, and a comparable percentage are victims of physical assault. This distressing statistic demonstrates the problem&#8217;s pervasiveness and the urgent need to prevent and confront bullying.  What is bullying? Bullying is defined as long-term, regular, and intentional hostile behavior</p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying is a serious issue that affects numerous individuals, particularly children. Both the bully and the victim could suffer from the negative impacts of bullying. Hence, it is essential to comprehend the variables that lead to the development of bullying behavior and to implement preventative and corrective measures. </span></p>
<p><a href="https://www.unicef.org/documents/behind-numbers-ending-school-violence-and-bullying"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Around 33% of children worldwide</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> are bullied at some point during childhood or adolescence, and a comparable percentage are victims of physical assault. This distressing statistic demonstrates the problem&#8217;s pervasiveness and the urgent need to prevent and confront bullying. </span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">What is bullying?</span></h2>
<p><a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1359178918300557"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> is defined as long-term, regular, and intentional hostile behavior performed by some children toward their peers who cannot defend themselves properly, which can occur directly or over the internet (i.e., cyberbullying). Bullying can take various forms, including verbal, physical, interpersonal, and cyber. </span></p>
<p><strong>Read more: <a href="https://insights.lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/types-of-bullying/">Spot the Different Types of Bullies and How to Respond Safely</a>  </strong></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">The causes of bullying</span></h2>
<p><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/youthviolence/riskprotectivefactors.html#Risk%20Factors"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Risk factors</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> refer to specific characteristics or circumstances that can contribute to the likelihood of children displaying bullying behavior. While these risk factors do not necessarily cause bullying, they can increase the chances of it occurring. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Various risk factors, such as the children, family, and school, can collectively increase the likelihood of children engaging in bullying. It&#8217;s important to note that these risk factors don&#8217;t work in isolation; rather, they interact and increase the chances of bullying behavior. By understanding and addressing these risk factors, one can work towards preventing and reducing bullying behavior in children.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Risk factors in children</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A child&#8217;s attributes can lead to multiple risk factors that increase their chances of becoming a bully such as:</span></p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Low self-control</span></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Children who have </span><a href="https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2022.720149/full"><span style="font-weight: 400;">low self-control</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> are at a higher risk of engaging in bullying behavior due to difficulty in regulating their thoughts, emotions, and behavior. This non-regulation can lead to impulsive and aggressive actions, making them more prone to perpetrating bullying behavior against their peers.</span></p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Low emotional self-efficacy</span></h4>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Children with </span><a href="https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12310-015-9157-9"><span style="font-weight: 400;">low emotional self-efficacy</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> — meaning they lack confidence in their ability to regulate negative emotions — may encounter challenges when dealing with personal criticism. They are more likely to become upset easily, exhibit poor emotional stability, and perceive the world as a hostile environment. These factors can increase their likelihood of engaging in bullying behaviors.</span></p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Low empathy</span></h4>
<p><a href="https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10964-014-0135-6#citeas"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Empathy</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> refers to a person&#8217;s capability to comprehend (i.e., cognitive empathy) and experience (i.e., affective empathy) another person&#8217;s emotions. Bullies either have limited empathy or none at all. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Children that engage in bullying are not always incapable of understanding how others feel, but they appear to have a diminished capacity to experience others&#8217; feelings. In other words, whether or not bullies comprehend how others feel, they do not experience such emotions themselves. It is experiencing others&#8217; emotions, not simply understanding them, that influences children&#8217;s predisposition to refrain from bullying.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Risk factors in the family</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Children who become bullies tend to come from </span><a href="https://ejnpn.springeropen.com/articles/10.1186/s41983-022-00449-x"><span style="font-weight: 400;">families with certain characteristics</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">These families often have little emotional closeness or warmth and may have parents, particularly the father, who is absent or not involved in their child&#8217;s life. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In addition, such families may emphasize power and control, modeled through aggressive behaviors. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The family environment may also be marked by little cohesion, meaning family members don’t work together or feel united in their efforts. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Furthermore, these children may have experienced physical abuse or neglect at home, which can contribute to their tendency to act out through bullying. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Finally, they may come from low socioeconomic status families with authoritarian parents who value obedience over individual expression and may not provide enough emotional support to their children. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">All these factors can increase the likelihood that a child will become a bully, as they may learn that aggressive behavior is acceptable or may feel a lack of connection to their parents.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Risk factors in the school</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If the school environment is not positive and healthy, bullying and related problems can become widespread. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Teachers play a critical role in preventing and addressing bullying in schools. However, teachers may respond to bullying differently depending on their beliefs and attitudes. Some teachers may see bullying as a normal part of social development and may not feel it is necessary to intervene or offer support to the victim. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Additionally, teachers may fail to recognize certain types of bullying, such as verbal or relational bullying, or may not perceive the behavior as bullying. These circumstances can lead to a lack of action to address the issue, allowing bullying to continue unchecked.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">How to prevent bullying</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Parents, teachers, and other adults who care about children can play an important role in preventing bullying. There is a lot of research that shows there are many ways to prevent children’s bullying from happening. </span><a href="https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/yv-technicalpackage.pdf"><span style="font-weight: 400;">These strategies</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> have been proven to work by science and can reduce the number of children engaging in bullying.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Promote family environments favorable to healthy development</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The family setting greatly influences the health and behavior of children. Family life can have a huge impact from when they&#8217;re little through adolescence and beyond. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If the family is unstable, stressed, lacks structure or supervision, and has poor relationships and communication between family members, it can increase the risk of bullying behavior and other risky behaviors. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But </span><a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1359178918300557"><span style="font-weight: 400;">research has shown</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> that when caregivers build warm and supportive relationships with children, set clear expectations and rules, and use nonviolent discipline, the risk of children engaging in bullying can be significantly lowered. The way families communicate, manage behavior, and resolve conflict all play a role in promoting a positive family environment that can benefit children&#8217;s healthy development.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Aim for high-quality education at an early age</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Quality early education can benefit children in many ways. It can improve their thinking and social skills, help them build positive relationships, and increase their chances of academic success and good health. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Early education that is licensed and accredited — markers of high quality — can also reduce problem behaviors and aggression at home and school. This, in turn, can contribute to better academic performance and less stress and conflict within families. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Early childhood education that involves parents can further improve children&#8217;s outcomes, family involvement, and parenting practices. It can also provide pathways for families to access other means of support, such as employment, transportation, and mental and physical health services. </span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Strengthen children’s skills</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Teaching children essential skills is a key part of preventing bullying. Children lacking communication, problem-solving, conflict resolution, empathy, impulse control, and emotional management skills are more likely to engage in bullying. </span></p>
<p><a href="https://link.springer.com/chapter/10.1007/978-3-319-53028-4_3"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Research has shown</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> that developing important life skills can significantly reduce the risk of children’s bullying and improve other factors, such as substance abuse and academic achievement. Learning these skills can help children become more self-aware, understand social situations better, avoid risky behavior, and manage conflicts without violence.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">In conclusion</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying is a pervasive problem affecting many individuals, particularly children. It can take different forms, such as verbal, physical, relational, and cyber, and has numerous negative impacts on the bully and the victim. It is, therefore, essential to understand these risk factors and take preventative and corrective measures to address them early on.</span></p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Contrary to what movies and TV shows have led us to believe, bullying is more than just the victims being shoved into lockers, thrown into dumpsters, and other visible physical assaults. There are many ways that a child could be bullied. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Unfortunately, most people are not aware of how certain situations could be considered bullying. Even most children in a </span><a href="https://doi.org/10.1177/0165025408095553"><span style="font-weight: 400;">study</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> defined bullying as mere aggressive and harassing behaviors.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">What exactly is bullying?</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Despite years of studies, experts haven’t been able to reach a conclusive definition of what bullying is. Regardless of the ongoing debate, Olweus’s (</span><a href="https://doi.org/10.1007/BF02195509"><span style="font-weight: 400;">1996</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">) definition — the aggressive behaviors that are intentional and usually repetitive, done in an asymmetric power relationship — has been mostly accepted and cited by researchers.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">What about unintentional bullying?</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Referring to the definition, one’s actions were considered bullying if they consisted of: </span></p>
<ol>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">repetition, </span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">power imbalance, and </span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">intention to harm.</span></li>
</ol>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In that case, what about when person A with higher social status jokingly name-calls his less popular friend (person B) regularly but has never wished to inflict any harm?</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Olweus in </span><a href="https://doi.org/10.1146/annurev-clinpsy-050212-185516"><span style="font-weight: 400;">2013</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> argued that assessing the perpetrators&#8217; intentions does not happen by simply asking about their intentions, but instead by understanding the context of the interaction. If person A acknowledges that name-calling an individual might make them feel distressed, the awareness may be considered enough to classify his behavior as aggressive. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">However, Olweus also pointed out that the victim’s perspective could also be an additional factor in assessing the situation. If person B did not perceive the name-calls as unwanted behavior, then it could be concluded that the intention to harm is absent in this case.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Types of bullying</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As you have gained an understanding of what bullying is, it is important to acknowledge that harmful behaviors could manifest in many forms. Here is the major categorization of bullying widely used by researchers on the subject.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Physical bullying</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This type of bullying happens when the bullies assert their dominance toward their victims by using physical attacks (e.g. punching, kicking, pushing, spitting), forcibly taking or damaging their belongings, or coercing them into performing the bullies’ order. As the aggressive interaction between the perpetrators and victims happens directly, this type of bullying is visibly easier to identify. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Thus, when you notice the presence of unusual physical marks (e.g. bruises, scrapes, scabs, fractured bones) on your children or realize that their personal items have been mysteriously missing or damaged, there’s the possibility that they are being physically bullied.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Verbal bullying</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Another way bullies could directly cause harm to their targets is by engaging in verbal bullying. It is done by name-calling, taunting, or threatening. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">However, verbal bullying isn&#8217;t always transmitted in the form of oral communication, as it may also be delivered through offensive and threatening gestures or written notes.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Despite not physically causing any injury, verbal bullying isn&#8217;t necessarily less dangerous than physical bullying. As it tends to leave little to no visible signs or proof, the risk of caregivers and teachers not being aware of the situation is much higher. As a result, the bullying could occur for a longer period and worsen the victims’ mental state. </span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Relational bullying</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Similar to verbal bullying, relational bullying is also the type that could be employed directly and indirectly. The main difference between the two is the goal. When verbal bullying aims to harm the person, relational bullying is rooted in the intention to damage the person&#8217;s social relationships and reputation. </span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Direct relational bullying is done by the perpetrators’ visible attempt to actively ignore the victims or keep other peers from interacting with them. Indirect relational bullying, on the other hand, consists of a more covert strategy such as spreading rumors or posting the victim’s embarrassing photos on the internet.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying in various contexts</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The discourse on bullying tends to be focused on the school environment. In their </span><a href="https://link.springer.com/book/10.1007/978-3-030-20293-4"><span style="font-weight: 400;">book</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, Smokowski and Evans illustrate how violence in various settings could also be considered a form of bullying due to the presence of bullying features (repetition, power imbalance, and intention to harm). It could occur in the digital realm, at home, in intimate relationships, in college environments, and other settings.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Below is the breakdown of bullying features of each of these types. Bear in mind that this is not an exhaustive list. Smokowski and Evans in their book indeed pointed out the overlap between violence and bullying in various contexts, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that bullying only exists in these situations.</span></p>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying in the digital environment</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Cyberbullying is the use of digital technology to intentionally cause any harm that may happen once or repeatedly. </span></p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Types of cyberbullying</span></h4>
<ol>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Flaming: Online argument that generally takes place in a public online environment (such as a community chat group) where both parties verbally attack one another.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Harassment: A repeated act of sending abusive and degrading comments. The differences between harassment and flaming are that the former usually takes place in private channels (such as email and text messages), lasts longer, and is directed at a single victim.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Denigration: The act of digitally circulating information (that is frequently false or manipulated) to tarnish one’s reputation or social relationships.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Impersonation: Sending harmful messages or misinformation using a fake account (usually under another person’s identity). This type of cyberbullying is not only harmful to the recipient of the messages, but also to those whose identity was stolen.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Outing: Disclosing someone’s private or humiliating information on the internet without their consent.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Trickery: Luring the victim to disclose their private and/or embarrassing information to expose them online.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Exclusion: Intentionally excluding someone from an online group/forum.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Cyberstalking: Persistent and severe harassment, denigration, and threats that cause a great sense of fear toward the victims.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Happy slapping and hopping: Intentionally slap and/or physically assault an individual. The process is recorded and posted online to humiliate the targets.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image-Based Abuse (IBA): The perpetrators circulate victims’ intimate photos or videos without their consent. Digitally altering someone’s photo to sexually objectify them is one of the many IBA manifestations</span></li>
</ol>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying features</span></h4>
<ol>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Repetition</strong>: The repetition isn’t measured by the number of times the perpetrators attack the victims. Instead, the criteria that cause the repetitive impact on the targets are the number of bystanders who view and forwarded the attack.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Power imbalance</strong>: The online crowds give the impression of asymmetrical power that inhibits the victims to fight or avoid the attack.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Intent to harm</strong>: The assessment of whether the actions are harmful or not depends on the victims. Thus, even if the sender claims that the comments they sent were meant to be a joke, it is still considered bullying if the recipient felt hurt.</span></li>
</ol>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying by parent(s) or caregiver(s)</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Child maltreatment is the mistreatment of children under 18 in terms of their physical and emotional well-being, usually inflicted by parent(s) and/or caregiver(s). It could manifest in the forms of sexual abuse, neglect, negligence, and/or exploitation.</span></p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying features</span></h4>
<ol>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Repetition</strong>: The nature of child maltreatment that tends to happen more than once. </span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Power imbalance</strong>: Children are powerless against the parents&#8217; or caregivers&#8217; authority. </span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Intent to harm</strong>: Any type of mistreatment causes harm to children. The children’s perspective in assessing the degree of harm caused by the treatment is fundamental, regardless of the parent&#8217;s or caregiver&#8217;s intentions.</span></li>
</ol>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying by sibling(s)</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sibling violence is an aggressive behavior pattern between siblings that involves physical and verbal attacks driven by the need for dominance.</span></p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying features</span></h4>
<ol>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Repetition</strong>: Sibling violence could be considered bullying if the victimizations occur continuously.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Power imbalance</strong>: The power imbalance between siblings is different for each family. It could be determined by age, size, gender, or family dynamic (such as siblings that are more favored by the parents or siblings that are more cognitively advanced). </span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Intent to harm</strong>: The intention of harm could be rooted in the need to acquire resources in the family (parents’ affection, toys, clothing, and food) or simply to hurt the other sibling.</span></li>
</ol>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying by an intimate partner</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A type of physical, psychological, sexual, or stalking violence between two adolescents in an intimate relationship.</span></p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying features</span></h4>
<ol>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Repetition</strong>: Most teen dating violence (TDV) occurs in ongoing relationships, in which the abusive behavior pattern is recurring.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Power imbalance</strong>: The violence creates or strengthens the power imbalance between the partners. </span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Intent to harm</strong>: The partner with more superiority engages in aggressive behaviors as a means to maintain power and control the abused partner. </span></li>
</ol>
<h3><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying in college</span></h3>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Hazing is a group&#8217;s initiation ritual that involves abuse and degradation that can cause physical or emotional injury</span></p>
<h4><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying features</span></h4>
<ol>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Repetition</strong>: As Olweus (2013) stated, repetition is not considered the necessary criterion, as it aimed to give more clarity if the negative behavior is rooted in intention. Thus, even if hazing is a one-time event, the atrocious actions would be regarded as bullying.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Power imbalance</strong>: The imbalance of power exists due to the existing members of the group having the authority over the newcomer’s access to group membership.</span></li>
<li style="font-weight: 400;" aria-level="1"><span style="font-weight: 400;"><strong>Intent to harm</strong>: The victim&#8217;s perception is vital, even if the hazing rituals were meant to be playful and entertaining. Therefore, if the victim feels harmed, it is likely that the victim will identify the situation as bullying. However, victims may be in denial about the harm the hazing does them due to their determination to fit in with the group. Therefore, the damage caused by the hazing may only be identified by people outside the group</span></li>
</ol>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">In conclusion</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It usually starts with the “eat or be eaten” mentality. Wang and colleagues&#8217; </span><a href="https://doi.org/10.1007/s12144-022-03515-y"><span style="font-weight: 400;">study</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> pointed out how an environment that emphasizes the battle between social status and attention allows bullying to prosper among its people. As it could happen everywhere, parents need to notice the signs before giving their children the best support they need to prevent the detrimental effects of bullying.</span></p>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying poses a significant worry for parents, affecting their child&#8217;s emotional and mental well-being with consequences. Join the insightful discussion as it explores the profound impact of bullying on children, along with effective strategies to prevent and address this issue. </span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">Meet Stella O&#8217;Malley</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;"><a href="http://www.stellaomalley.com/">Stella O&#8217;Malley</a> is a renowned psychotherapist, best-selling author, and public speaker with extensive experience in mental health and well-being. Based in Birr, Co. Offaly, she specializes in counseling parents and young people and has authored successful books like <em>Cotton Wool Kids</em>, <em>Bully-proof Kids</em>, and <em>Fragile</em>.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A prominent figure in Irish media, Stella writes about mental health for various newspapers and appears on national and local media outlets to discuss topics such as mindfulness, resilience, parenting, and workplace conflict resolution. She also delivers public talks and lectures on children&#8217;s behavior and mental health for different organizations across Ireland. </span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">About the episode</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The host, Dina Sargeant, initiated a discussion on the subject of bullying and its impact on children. She delved into how being bullied can lead to diminished enthusiasm in social situations and instill a fear of attending school. Dina acknowledged that, as a parent, it&#8217;s normal to experience a range of emotions like shock, worry, fear, or defensiveness when it comes to bullying.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">To clarify this issue, the host invited Stella O&#8217;Malley, a psychotherapist and author, for an interview. Before exploring into the topic of bullying, the host asked Stella to explain the role of a psychotherapist and her personal journey toward becoming one. Stella shared that her interest in psychology was fueled by a difficult childhood, and at the age of 30, she attended a counseling and psychotherapy event that solidified her passion for the field.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Before getting into the specifics of bullying, Dina lightened the mood with an icebreaker game with Stella. During the game, she mentions her favorite book, <em>Lying on the Couch</em> by Irvin Yalom, which revolves around the experiences of psychiatrists and their clients.</span></p>
<h2><span style="font-weight: 400;">In conclusion</span></h2>
<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Bullying is repeated aggression from someone with more power toward another person. Parenting can sometimes be correlated with bullying. There are different types of targets in bullying scenarios: the &#8220;classic target&#8221; who is gentle and compliant, the &#8220;accidental target&#8221; due to circumstances, and the &#8220;provocative target&#8221; who speaks up and may attract negative attention.</span></p>
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