Raising Parents

Zahwa Islami, M. Psi: Triggers of Conflict Between Parents and Adolescents | Raising Parents #31

Every family must ever experience conflicts between parents and adolescents, whether it’s minor disagreements or diverging values. In this episode, Zahwa explored the root causes of these conflicts, their repercussions, and strategies for building an understanding of the family dynamic, offering insights for both parents and adolescents.

Meet Zahwa Islami, M. Psi

Meet Zahwa Islami, a distinguished clinical psychologist from Indonesia who has made significant strides in family and relationship dynamics. With a genuine dedication to mental health advocacy, Zahwa’s journey has been marked by a commitment to bridging generational gaps and fostering understanding within familial contexts. Currently, she is in the president’s executive office within the Department of Health, Women Empowerment, and Child Protection, where her expertise illuminates crucial issues and drives positive change. 

Drawing inspiration from her experiences and influential role models, Zahwa’s passion for compassionate parenting and support for stigmatized individuals shines through. Her admiration for figures like Lady Diana reflects her deep-seated belief in the transformative power of empathy.

With plans to delve further into trauma studies, Zahwa underscores the importance of parenting beyond the mere provision of essentials, advocating for the creation of safe spaces where children can thrive. As a host of parenting and family-centric shows, Zahwa brings a unique perspective shaped by her encounters with diverse parenting styles and approaches, enriching her advocacy with invaluable insights and empathy.

About the episode

Throughout the discussion, Zahwa emphasizes understanding the child’s perspective amid familial conflicts and advocates for effective communication as a preventive measure. She stresses the significance of parents providing a secure base for their teenagers while highlighting schools’ role in teaching vital emotional regulation and communication skills.

The conversation navigates through various stages of parenting, shedding light on the importance of cultural awareness and adapting to different parenting styles. Drawing from her own experiences and inspirations, Zahwa shares personal anecdotes and insights, emphasizing the need for compassion and empathy in navigating these turbulent waters.

As the discussion progresses, Zahwa delves into the neurological disparities between adolescents and adults, elucidating the challenges in conflict resolution arising from developmental differences. She underscores the necessity of education and guidance to aid teenagers’ emotional regulation and impart essential relationship skills.

Touching upon her own journey of cultural adaptation and self-discovery, Zahwa emphasizes the complexities adolescents face in asserting their identities amidst societal expectations and familial constraints. Through her narrative, she advocates for open communication and understanding between parents and teenagers, highlighting the risks of neglecting these crucial elements.

In conclusion

Promoting open communication and cultural understanding to foster empathy and harmony is essential when dealing with conflicts between parents and adolescents. This approach can help establish healthier relationships and create a foundation for a better future. Listen to the podcast to discover how to do this approach.

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