“Don’t let FOMO kill your MOJO.” — Brene Brown
The influence of digital technology and excessive use of social media is rampant. Because of these ever-present platforms, there is easy access to information about what is happening everywhere. This makes people continuously uncertain whether their life stacks up to others. This phenomenon, stemming from social media and the digital influx, is known as “FOMO.”
The term FOMO, or Fear of Missing Out, was introduced in 2004 and has since gained popularity. FOMO is a pervasive psychological phenomenon characterized by a strong desire to stay connected and engaged with what others are doing, especially in the context of social events, activities, or trends. It’s a strong need to belong, largely affected by fear of social exclusion.
This article looks at the impact of FOMO on productivity and strategies to manage and boost productivity. Explore it now and learn how to beat FOMO.
A study of FOMO in the workplace described the phenomenon as pervasive apprehension tendencies toward other employees from a fear of exclusion from rewarding professional relationships (i.e., building professional relationships, gaining valuable information, and contributing to key organizational decisions and projects).
More broadly, FOMO is characterized by the fear or anxiety of missing out on something interesting, exciting, or important happening elsewhere — often fueled by social media usage.
The two important components of FOMO include the “perception of missing out” followed by a “compulsive behavior to maintain perceived social image and connections.” Because of this, FOMO is considered a negative emotional state arising from unmet social-related needs.
Several studies have explored the phenomenon of FOMO to understand its negative effects on people. Addressing FOMO is critical in workplace and personal productivity because of its negative effects, such as the following:
Research has shown that individuals with higher levels of FOMO are more vigilant toward smartphone notifications. Because of this, their mental resources are preoccupied, which could lead to distractions and poor concentration that, in turn, affects workflow and productivity.
The availability of information from different sources causes information overload, which disrupts the efficient flow of work and productivity. This fear results in multitasking, as employees attempt to stay connected while working. This tendency impairs concentration and quality of work.
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Hence, FOMO distracts employees from tasks and hampers productivity owing to their compulsive need to stay connected and learn about what is happening with others. The bombardment of notifications and constant checking of digital devices to get the latest updates affect work productivity immensely.
There’s a growing research-backed awareness that social connections are essential for overall well-being. In the digital era, the way people connect has shifted, and there are concerns over its negative influence on well-being.
For example, digital engagement is convenient (e.g., video conferencing), and people can connect with others from their homes across different countries and time zones. This type of digital engagement enhances productivity. However, the question becomes whether or not this connectivity is enough to forge interpersonal relationships.
A cross-sectional study found that face-to-face contact outside the home is critical for overall well-being (i.e., reduced feelings of loneliness) and for building strong interpersonal relationships. Thus, excessive preoccupation with online interactions due to FOMO can lead to neglect of real-life relationships. People might opt for online engagements over face-to-face interactions, leading to social isolation in the real world.
FOMO also often leads to constant social comparison, where individuals measure their lives against the curated, idealized versions presented on social media. This continuous comparison can negatively impact self-esteem and self-worth. FOMO can also lead to envy and inadequacy that can strain personal relationships as people constantly compare themselves to others.
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Thus, FOMO can negatively impact personal relationships and social activities by reducing the quality of in-person interactions, driving over-commitment, and creating comparison and jealousy.
Research has established connections between FOMO and mental health, such as how it can contribute to feelings of depression and anxiety. Constantly fearing exclusion from online activities or social events leads to chronic stress and heightened anxiety levels.
People struggle to balance their online and offline lives because of the pressure to stay connected and engaged with digital platforms, leading to immense stress and burnout.
Another characteristic of FOMO is that it induces increased screen time (i.e., constantly checking social media for updates), particularly late at night, affecting sleep patterns and leading to sleep disturbances. The constant urge to check notifications or engage in online activities can keep individuals awake, resulting in insufficient and poor-quality sleep.
Knowing the negative consequences of FOMO, you must have certain practices or strategies to help mitigate its effects. Learning and then mindfully implementing these strategies can help overcome this phenomenon. Here are some strategies to support the process of overcoming FOMO and improving your productivity:
Digital detox involves intentionally disconnecting from digital devices and online activities for a specified period. It helps you regain control over your digital habits, reduce FOMO-related stress, and improve overall well-being.
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Mindful technology use also involves being present and intentional when using digital devices. This approach encourages you to establish boundaries, limit screen time, and use technology in ways that align with your values and priorities. It promotes productivity by enabling individuals to concentrate better and stay focused.
Prioritizing tasks and setting clear goals allows you to focus on what truly matters, reducing the constant urge to check notifications and social media for fear of missing out. Prioritization will reduce your tendencies of FOMO, as your social life will likely not place high above your list.
By implementing this strategy, you can better manage their digital behaviors and reduce the impact of FOMO in your daily life. Thus, prioritizing tasks and setting clear goals enhances productivity by providing focus, boosting efficiency, and allocating time and energy wisely.
The Joy of Missing Out (JOMO) is a mindset and lifestyle choice that encourages you to find happiness and contentment in the present moment, even if it means intentionally missing out on certain experiences or digital activities.
It represents a counterbalance to FOMO and emphasizes the importance of living mindfully, being present, and savoring the moments without constantly seeking validation or stimulation from online sources.
Thus, JOMO promotes prioritizing self-care and letting go of the constant need to be connected while creating stronger and more meaningful interactions. While specific JOMO studies may be limited, the principles of mindfulness, contentment, and savoring experiences are well-supported in research on well-being and mental health. Cultivating the joy of missing out also helps you build productivity habits by making room for self-care, being present, and indulging in mindfulness practices.
In today’s digital age, FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) has become a widespread phenomenon due to the influence of social media and constant connectivity. FOMO leads to anxiety and distractions, negatively impacting both work and personal life. It can also affect mental health and sleep patterns.
Strategies such as digital detox, mindful technology use, setting boundaries, prioritizing tasks, and cultivating the Joy of Missing Out (JOMO) are essential to overcome FOMO and boost productivity. These approaches help you find balance in your digital life, reduce distractions, and improve overall well-being.
If you would like to see more resources on FOMO, check out the Personal Productivity Science Labs. The lab uses the research of the Institute for Life Management Science to produce courses, certifications, podcasts, videos, and other tools. Visit the Personal Productivity Science Labs today.
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