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Shira Etzion, LMFT: Shared Responsibilities for Personal Growth | Reloscope #61

In today’s evolving landscape of romantic partnerships, shared responsibility has taken on new meaning and importance. Gone are the days when relationships were defined by rigid gender roles or societal expectations. Instead, modern couples embrace a more balanced and collaborative approach to building their lives together.

Meet Shira Etzion, LMFT

Shira is passionate about personal growth and has a natural ability to connect deeply with her clients. She wholeheartedly believes that whatever brings a person into therapy can be a powerful catalyst, ultimately helping them create a more enriched and honest life experience for themselves and those around them.

Shira is a Certified Holistic Health Counselor through the Institute of Integrative Nutrition, a Certified Coach through the Institute for Professional Excellence in Coaching (iPEC). She is certified in Redirecting Children’s Behavior and Conscious Parenting. Additionally, she has extensive training in Mindfulness-based approaches, completing her 200-hour Yoga Teacher Training along with various alternative approaches both in and outside the coaching and therapeutic framework.

Shira holds an MA in Marriage and Family Therapy from Hofstra University, and has facilitated workshops, seminars, retreats, and individual work in a variety of settings focused on health and wellness, personal growth, meditation, mindfulness and transpersonal exploration over the last 15 years.

About the episode

According to Shira, shared responsibility in a relationship means:

Having a shared commitment to showing up with curiosity about yourself and your partner
Being open to learning about and growing with your partner over time
Taking an active role in supporting your partner’s journey and personal evolution
Bringing 100% of yourself to the relationship rather than expecting a perfect 50/50 split
Essentially, it’s about creating an environment of mutual support, growth, and understanding. Both partners take responsibility for nurturing the relationship and each other’s well-being.

One common misconception about shared responsibility is that it’s all about compromise. Shira challenges this notion, suggesting that compromise often leaves both partners feeling like they’ve given something up.

Instead, she advocates for a win-win mindset rooted in deeply understanding your partner’s needs and motivations. This allows couples to find creative solutions that feel good to both people rather than settling for an unsatisfying middle ground.

For example, if one partner is vegan and the other wants to try a new non-vegan restaurant, the solution isn’t necessarily to “compromise” by going somewhere neither wants. By communicating openly about their needs and desires, the couple might find that the vegan partner is happy to support their partner’s interest in trying the new place, knowing there will be other opportunities to enjoy vegan meals together.

In conclusion

Embracing shared responsibility in a relationship is not a one-time decision but an ongoing process of growth, learning, and mutual support. By cultivating a partnership built on true shared responsibility, couples create a foundation for lasting love, deep connection, and mutual empowerment. It’s a journey that requires work, but the rewards—a thriving relationship and two individuals reaching their full potential—are immeasurable.

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