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Nicole Koelewijn: Commitment and Long-term Planning in Relationships | Reloscope #62

Relationships are essential to a fulfilling life. Explore the significance of commitment in sustaining a romantic relationship and discover valuable tools to maintain healthy, meaningful connections. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that promises to reshape your approach to commitment and long-term relationship success.

Meet Nicole Koelewijn

Nicole Koelewijn is a qualified professional coach with over 10 years of experience in coaching, mediation, consulting, and culture, both in Australia and internationally. She holds a Bachelor’s degree in Law and Commerce, a Graduate Certificate in Counseling, and is an accredited mediator under the NMAS. Nicole is also a mother to two young children.

About the episode

In this episode of Reloscope, Nicole Koelewijn explains how people now have more choices and higher expectations in relationships. Unlike previous generations, relationships are no longer just about financial security or societal norms but about finding a partner for love, friendship, and equal co-parenting. Nicole emphasizes that commitment involves continually choosing your partner and holding them in high regard, making it essential for long-term success.

Nicole stresses the importance of long-term planning in relationships. By planning and discussing potential challenges ahead of time, couples can prevent reactive responses to conflicts and approach issues as a team. Nicole also emphasizes that aligning expectations through open conversations is key to reducing the gap between expectations and reality.

Nicole discusses misconceptions about commitment, particularly the belief that it leads to a boring and unexciting relationship. She emphasizes that commitment fosters personal and relational growth, allowing couples to navigate challenges together. She also highlights the importance of maintaining individuality within the relationship.

In conclusion

This episode explains how commitment shapes long-term relationship planning, advocating for open discussions on values, life goals, and decision-making to promote understanding and strengthen partnerships. It also addresses misconceptions about commitment and offers advice on maintaining a balance between dedication and overcommitment. It offers valuable insights into building a lasting bond beyond the initial spark.

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